Finding Your Personal Style Can Help You Pinpoint What Sparks Joy
Struggling to Define
Your Style?
You’re Not Alone“I don’t have style.”
“I just like being comfy—I don’t really have a defined style.”
“My tastes are all over the place; there’s no way to pin them down.”
“I wish I could pull off [insert dream aesthetic here].”
“My work and personal styles feel completely disconnected.”
“I don’t feel great in anything I own, but I have to wear these clothes for my lifestyle.”
These are some of the most common things I hear from clients when they’re trying to determine which clothing truly resonates with them. Identifying what makes you feel your best can be challenging—but one of the most helpful tools I’ve found is Allison Bornstein’s ‘3 Word Method.’
A Simple but Powerful Tool: The 3 Word Method
By thoughtfully selecting three words that capture the key aspects of your taste, style, and inspiration, you start to see patterns—connections between the different facets of your life that might not seem related at first.
Find Your Thread—and Make Decluttering Easier
It’s incredibly satisfying to uncover that common thread, and once you do, decluttering your closet becomes so much easier. (I know from personal experience how helpful finding my 3 words has been!)
Intentional Style, Fewer Regrets
Having this clarity also helps curb impulse shopping. When you know what truly fits your style and lifestyle, you’re less likely to buy items that sit unworn in your closet. Instead, you build a wardrobe with intention—one that reflects who you are and supports how you want to live.
Ready to simplify your style?
These quick, 2-minute videos below from stylist Allison Bornstein walk you through her popular 3 Word Method—a simple, approachable way to define your personal style. She’ll guide you through how to find the 3 words that describe the look and feel you want from your wardrobe, making it easier to edit your closet and shop with confidence.
Want some support along the way?
If you're feeling stuck or unsure, this is something we can work on together during a closet decluttering session. I’ll help you identify your 3 words, edit your wardrobe with intention, and create a space (and a style!) that truly feels like you.
